Sunday, November 4, 2007

奋斗力

近来几个月,对身边发生的人事;心感厌烦!
不知为什么而活。

`Where am I going?'
Did you ever ask yourself:"what am I doing in this stupid job?"
Do you ever feel like you are stuck?"
If you feel frustrated or unhappy at work-whether you're a chicken plucker or a brain surgeon-your best strategy is...GIVE IT ALL YOU'VE GOT.
Why?
You feel better about yourself
You develop your skills
You develop a reputation
Sometimes, someone will notice you and offer you a better position, or
You'll one day get the confidence to go do your own thing.

Fred says, "If I had a great job, I would really work hard-but I've got this lousy job so I just sleep all day!" No, Fred!
When we continually give our best, life naturally leads us toward new opportunities. Sometimes it takes a while, but it happens.
One more thing...opportunities, job offers-and romance-usually arrive when we least expect them.
Great opportunities and life-changing relationships mostly happen in the most unlikely situations.
It's life's way of reminding us to give respect to everyone we meet!
It's also life's way of reminding us to keep an open mind!
Successful people tell themselves,"If I make the most of this opportunity, I'll get a bigger one".

Life rewards effort, no excuses.

(taken from Andrew Matthews:Happiness Now)

这就是奋斗力。

都市的生活紧张急促,压力重重,年轻一代的沟通方式尖酸刻薄,在这样的环境工作了五天,什么耐性爱心都被消磨掉了,来到礼拜天,心情低落无比。

彭先生遇见我,大吐苦水,解释为什么失踪了一个月。他说,来教堂好像在求人,孩子有时没时间载送他,到了教堂楼下,又要麻烦人扛他的轮椅上来。
我静静听完,说,“不会啦!我们每个人,都在一些程度上需要依靠别人的,好像我现在坐在这里,也是正在依靠别人在主日学帮我带孩子。”

我不知道这样的说法对他有什么影响, 但是过后重复给老公听,他倒是相当欣赏。
原来我每天尝试练习的积极思想,可以在谈话中表现出来的。我不是白吃米饭的哦!
然而,彭先生也许不知道,他认为来教堂,只会给人带来麻烦。岂不知,,上帝在暗暗的使用他,鼓励了我的心。
这也是双向的造就,安慰,鼓励呢!
每天作个劳力的农夫,要工作啦!